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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 05:17

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

As i do to all so called friends.?

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

So whats the point in blame.

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Why do some people tell the girl I like that I don’t like her when I do like her?

On the 31st of Jan this month .

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

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He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He resisted the act ,that day.

Why are most people broke?

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

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Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

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Put me off passion for life!!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

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One cannot live in the past .

Why did i forgive my father ?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

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I was writing from the time i was a small child.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I could never make a relationship work though!

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I waited trembling.

I have no regrets .

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

All the time i was locked up.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Ive learnt so much.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

She wouldn,t have been !

Was to survive, this bastard.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I couldn’t, believe it.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

He knew the spot.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

We all went to grammer schools

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

But it wasn’t much.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

But, we were locked up after school.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I don,t even have a pension.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

What did i know ?

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

I was seconnd youngest,

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I was scared of men, in general

Who then, do I blame.?

And i lived it daily.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

It was going to be , some day.

She married twice! .

I was 9 years of age.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Especially a lifetime of it.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

So, i spoilt her more .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

But ive been too sick for many years..

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

My family never makes their pension either.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Im still living with it.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I said to her

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

My life is so biszare .

Would this be the day?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

She found it foreign!.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She loved him until the end.

When she asked me how she looked .

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

We were not on the streets..

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I think the readers, may guess!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I write beautiful poetry .

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

She was in good health!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I never cut or harmed myself..

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I was very sick at this time too.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I will be 64.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

This is soul school!.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Comes on , in middle age.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.